"Advice To Cocksuckers"

Found this posted on the Yahoo FeedaCocksucker group.... I think it speaks for itself and says it all:

ADVICE TO COCKSUCKERS

It isn't always easy being a cocksucker. A cocksucker needs another man's dick for sexual pleasure and satisfaction (which aren't quite the same thing) more than he needs his own. He needs to suck it, to worship it as the symbol and fact of male sexuality. A cocksucker needs to be used. And this means he is necessarily toward the bottom of the male sexual hierarchy. It just stands to reason that a man who needs only his own penis for sexual pleasure is sexually superior to one who needs another man's.

A cocksucker's sexual superiors often make fun of him--as is their right while they're using him for their pleasure--calling him names, making him beg for what he needs, laughing at him as he pleads to be allowed to service them. He's on his knees, while everyone else is standing up. During sex, a cocksucker, as his position on his knees indicates, is only one step up from a slave. Only urinals and, at the very bottom, shiteaters, rank lower. There’s nothing sexually lower than a human toilet.

And yet despite his low sexual status, a cocksucker can have a great and deeply fulfilling sex life. He can be good friends with the men who use him for sex and be their equal in all ways except sexually. He just has to figure out a few things first.

How do I know? Easy. I'm a cocksucker. I need to suck cock as much as I need to breathe and eat. I live for cock. For me, as with every true cocksucker, sucking dick IS sex for me. I've been a cocksucker since I was fourteen, when I started servicing my best friend when he was horny. He used me all through high school and we remained best friends even after I became his cocksucker. But while I was his best buddy and he was mine, neither of us pretended I was his sexual equal. When he wanted it, he just presented his dick for service and I dropped to my knees and gave it to him. But when I needed to suck, I had to ask him to share his beautiful penis with me. Sometimes he let me have it, sometimes he didn't.

That's just the way it is if you're a cocksucker. As another friend once explained: "Cocksucking is about two men getting sexual pleasure from the same penis. If you're the cocksucker, then it's his penis, and that has consequences."

So if you want to be a happy cocksucker, here are a few tips.




1) Accept the fact that you are a cocksucker.
OK, maybe you'd rather be straight or at least a top. But you aren't, are you? Nothing gets you so hot as thinking about some dude sharing his manhood with you while you get him off and take his load. The excitement you feel when his meat slides into your waiting mouth and you feel his pubes against your nose is palpable. The security you feel when he takes hold of your head and starts face-fucking you is comforting. The joy you feel when he pumps his load down your throat is intense. You're a cocksucker and nothing in the world is going to change that. So relax and enjoy being what and who you are. Drink in the pleasure you get from sucking cock, that sense of fulfillment you have when you service a man and he shares his manhood with you and gives you part of his sexual power as your reward.



2) Take pride in being a cocksucker.
Sure, you're near the bottom of the sexual totem pole. But there is nothing shameful about sucking on other men's dicks and coaxing a load out of them. It's just something you need to do. So when you're online and someone asks you what you're into, just say right off the bat, "I'm a cocksucker. I like to service." When someone accuses you of being a cocksucker, or makes fun of you because of it, just say, "Yeah, that's right. I'm a cocksucker and I like being one." Take pride in being a cocksucker.
Remember that you're only inferior sexually to the men who use you. You owe them submission because they give you the privilege of sucking them off. But you're still a man in every other way, just a man who needs to suck on other men's cocks for sexual pleasure rather than use your own.



3) Learn to be a good cocksucker.
Being orally serviced is one of the most intensely pleasurable sexual experiences a man can enjoy and you, his cocksucker, are the instrument of that pleasure and you are privileged to be that instrument. So master the art of servicing a man. Learn how to deep throat, how to edge. You'll find top guys willing to train you if you don't know these techniques.

Remember always the first rule of cocksucking: when you're on your knees for a guy, his penis is the only thing in the world that's important. You are there to worship it, to validate his manhood, and to pleasure him the way he wants to be pleasured. That's why we call it service. Learn to judge what he finds most pleasurable and give it to him.

As a cocksucker, your pleasure is a function of the pleasure you give the man you're servicing. The more he enjoys it, the more you will. Forget about your own dick. If you're a cocksucker, your dick is just for peeing and wanking, not for sex. Don't even take it out, unless your feeder wants to see it displayed as a symbol of your submission to his superior sexual status.

Your reward for this? A guy who has used you before calls you up and says, "Hey, buddy, can you take care of me?" There are a lot of guys who could have sucked his dick for him, but he chose you. Or you walk into a back room or sex club and there's a guy you've serviced there before, leaning against the wall, waiting. He sees you and his face lights up. He knows he's going to get what he came for because his favorite cocksucker has just walked in.

That's when you know you belong on your knees in front of other men.




4) Make friends with other cocksuckers.
There's nothing like having a buddy who understands why you need to suck cock, and only another cocksucker can really understand that need. Join newsgroups like MenWhoSwallow (http://www.menwhoswallow.net/) and FEEDACOCKSUCKER where there are lots of others to talk to about the joys of sucking cock and what it means to be a cocksucker. Go out to sex clubs and back rooms with a buddy. Be on your knees together and worship dick together. While you're sucking a cock, look over and watch him sucking for a second. Give him a wink and then go back to doing what you were born to do: giving oral sexual pleasure to men because you're a cocksucker.